I did a reading this week with a beloved client of six years. She and I have done over 20 readings together, and at this point meeting with her feels more like play than work.
We’ll call this woman Rebecca.
Rebecca wasn’t a “woo-woo” person when I first met her, and working with someone like me was 100% out of her wheelhouse. But she was in a tough spot in life and desperately needed some guidance.
One of the things I love about working with Rebecca is her willingness to trust the process and surrender to the unknown.
I’ve had some rough readings where I can tell the person is guarded and holding back. I do my best to be patient and push forward, but it can be exhausting. Imagine trying to give someone a manicure, and they keep turning off the lights and jerking their hand back.
Not Rebecca though. She’s all in. And at this point, she’s a pro at managing her sessions and asking questions in a way to get the answers she needs to feel better.
One by one we ticked off her concerns, and I live-channeled guidance that gave us both chills.
Toward the end of the reading, she casually brought up the issue of her real estate agent. Rebecca’s contemplating a big move and mostly used our time together to get general encouragement and support from the other side about the decision itself. But since we were on the topic, she shared with me her “meh” feelings about the person she’d recently interviewed to help her.
Before she had even asked a question, I saw a flash of a person in my mind.
“Who’s the woman in the black suit?” I said. “The older woman on the signs always in a black suit.”
Rebecca’s jaw dropped.
“Oh my god, I think you’re talking about Pam.”
She hurriedly grabbed her phone and searched something off-screen.
“That’s it. That’s her,” she gasped. “Here, let me send you this, and tell me if this is her.”
Rebecca sent me a link to a woman, and sure enough, her energy signature was exactly what the guides had shown me.
“The guides are showing me this image of hands brushing together, and they’re saying - Hire her and be done with it.”
Rebecca was flabbergasted.
She went on to tell me that the woman in the black suit was the agent she had used for her last few real estate transactions. When she first thought of moving, she had wanted to call her but hesitated because other people in her life had gotten in her ear about picking someone who knew her specific area.
“Well, I was expecting clarity from this reading, but I wasn’t expecting THAT MUCH clarity!” Rebecca joked.
I left the call buoyed by what had happened.
I kept replaying the moment over again in my mind trying to figure out how I was able to get such a clear flash. I thought to myself, “Wouldn’t it be nice if I had a magic formula to give every client such a powerful, clear experience?!”
But the more I leaned into what happened, the more I heard whispers of surrender.
“It’s in the letting go, not the grasping,” they said to me.
Tears filled my eyes because it’s a lesson I’m familiar with in this human existence as Kayla.
“It’s when you’re busy enjoying what is that you get more of what you want.”
Rebecca would have been satisfied with her reading even without the guidance about the agent, but in her satisfaction with what was, she unknowingly allowed her guides to dollop on even more goodness.
One of my favorite teachers - Dr. Joe Dispenza - always says, “The quantum field responds not to what we want; it responds to who we are being.”
It’s so easy to clench and grasp and want life to look a certain way with intensely specific outcomes. But it’s way more fun to lighten up, enjoy the ride and allow the unexpected to find you along the way.
And let me tell you, Rebecca and I are seasoned experts at being a whole hell of a lot of fun when we’re together. And that, I believe, is truly the magic formula to allowing the unexpected.